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any special way a Mason deals with a death?

4570

Registered User
Brothers is there any special way a Mason deals with a death?
I have just learned my Mother is terminal.
Age 86.

She is really at piece with it all.
Calls it a journey.

I am a strong person.
And I lost my Dad 4 years ago.
So in a sense feel ready.

Dad was a Mason.
This was before I became one.

So is there any special way a Mason deals with a death?

thanks...
 

Companion Joe

Premium Member
First, I am sorry to hear about your mother, and I will remember her in my prayers.
As for dealing with it, take comfort in your knowledge that we will live again, and rely on your Lodge for strength and support for as long as you need. You brothers will help, aid, and assist in any way they can.
 

JohnnyFlotsam

Premium Member
I find comfort in the holy writings that make up my faith
As Masons, we all believe (more or less) in a hereafter, so there should be comfort in knowing that our loved ones will receive that reward on their passing. Do as Brother Josh suggests and seek that spiritual comfort where you may. And do remember that your Brothers are there for you. You can reach out to them for any kind of support you may need.

My dad is also 86 and dealing with a terminal illness. He's of the same mind - at peace and ready for the next part of the journey. That is a blessing in itself. Hold onto that.
 

davidterrell80

Past Master
Premium Member
Our late Brother, Thomas Cole (1801–1848), created a series of paintings, that hang in the National Gallery of Art in Washington DC.

They, to me, exemplify the Masonic ideal. Examine the details, there are symbols everywhere.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Voyage_of_Life

Childhood
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Youth
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Manhood
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Old Age
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4570

Registered User
Thanks for the comments.
I was not sure if it might be ok to share and discuss an event such as this.

Great images David.
The one with the old man in the boat just does it for me...
 

rmcgehee

Registered User
My wife and I were discussing death the other day and she asked me "aren't you afraid of dying?" I told her "no,I've already died once,it's not so bad."
I am not making light of your situation,my Brother, but death is part of life.It is part of the process.
In my life I have had to make the decision to withhold treatment to both very ill parents that were suffering and ready to pass on.It was not an easy decision but I do not regret it.It was their time.
 
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