People like to pick and choose what they are against. For every one thing they pluck from the Bible (for example) to oppose, they ignore another 10 things. Gay men make some men uncomfortable however if someone is destroying there 'temple' everyday smoking and eating 500 grams of sugar, having diabetes, heart disease etc, that's ok. Two things that are personal things that don't effect others really. If anything, the overweight, unhealthy guy makes our healthcare costs go up for example. (I know some people can't help these things but many can and it's lifestyle choices that cause this) A brother can be uncomfortable with homosexuality and even oppose it but their beliefs, whether Christian, Muslim, Jewish or whatever, never trumps Masonic beliefs and ideals. They are not to bring up what their VSL says on the matter since we aren't supposed to talk about religion in lodge. We are Free and Accepted Masons and have to be accepting of others as well.