he Process with our lodge, and at least the other lodges in our District in PA, is that a potential candidate will usually be in contact with one or another brother in the lodge, or, if they contacted the Grand Lodge inquiring about membership, will contact the Secretary. They will then be invited to attend a dinner which take place before our stated meetings each month. Usually they will attend a few dinners and get to know some of the brothers, before submitting a petition. Once the petition is read at a Stated meeting an Investigation Committee is appointed by the Worshipful Master. This Investigation Committee meets with the petitioner, at their home, with their family present. This is the only "meeting" where we expect a wife / SO to attend.