What a great read so far. My family (Mother and Father) is very against me being a Freemason. They have given me DVD sets and printed literature that claims Freemasonry is evil, devil worshiping, etc. No matter what I tried to explain and show, they only agrees with this one reverent from the church that is also very against Freemasonry. We eventually agreed to disagree. Outside of family circles Im very open that I am a Freemason. Under the Grand Lodge of South Africa we are encourage to talk about Freemasonry, etc. The obvious secrets, passwords and ritual workings remains off limits to discuss.
I wear a baseball cap and t-shirts that are full of Freemasons symbols and my baseball cap has the word "Freemason" stitched on the back with the S&C on the front.