Widow's Sons always ask why some object to them, then when they are answered, they want to argue about it.
If you don't see the difference between the image of "making good men better" and the image of motorcycle gangs, I don't know what to tell you.
I've never understood why Mason's have a need to integrate all sort of other groups into Masonry. You don't join a golf club to go shooting, nor do you buy a boat because you want to do gardening. Why join Masonry and expect motorcycles, shooting groups etc. I just don't get it.