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choppersteve03

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my daughter has so severe emotionall problem,its ruff and its tearing our family apart. do any of you brothers have a child with odd,bipolar and add? please connect with me if you do, i need some ideas on how to manage my daughter. brothers please help me if you can, iam at my wits end dealing with her.
 

mrpesas

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depression and bipolar runs in my family. It is the main reason my sister took 10 yrs to graduate college. I'm am not that familiar with the other problems, but medication has done wonders for the depression and bipolar. Good luck with finding your path. These are difficult diseases for people to handle.
 

Michaelstedman81

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Ah, man. I'm sorry to hear about your situation, Brother. While I don't have experience or knowledge of that kind of stuff, I will pray very hard for you, your daughter, and the rest of your family. Keep your head up and keep communication with your family. I don't like how you said that it is tearing your family apart. Your daughter will need your family together and as strong as possible to help her. Don't focus 100% on helping her, make sure you are putting a big effort in keeping the rest of the family together as well. Ya'll are in my prayers.
 

Jacob Johnson

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I don't have kids, since I darn near still am one, but my little sister was an ODD child, and has ADD, and depression runs in the family. You guys will be in my prayers. If there's anything I can do, even just to provide an ear, please PM me.
 

choppersteve03

Premium Member
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Thank you brothers for all your support and kind advice. She is in a psych ward in the hospital, once shes stable shes off to a resistant facility again.
 

CTx Mason

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My oldest is Bipolar, it took me years to figure out what part of her behavior was her, hormones, teenager, or her bipolar.
Practice patience, prayer, and understanding. The hard part was letting her make mistakes so she could learn from them. She's now grown, engaged and a pharmacy tech. :)
 

jwhoff

Premium Member
I headed a project team at the job a couple of years ago. The project lasted two years and one of the ladies in my group was Bipolar. It took me a while to realize she was a very tender and sweet person underneath it all. Before working closely with her, I had thought for years that she was just a difficult person. As long as she followed her medication program she was great to work with.

This lady is a very hard worker. She's competent and trusted to complete assignments. She has to be, her demeanor is a liability for her. Still, her performance otherwise cries out for promotion.

I guess I look at this whole thing anew. There's a little light burning bright in there that was saddled with this terrible burden to carry through this physical world. It's difficult, if not impossible, to carry alone. Those of us within daily contact are also carrying a part of that burden. But, because we are fellow beings of the almighty, we have a responsibility toward one another.

I now cross paths with this lady two or three times each month. No matter her mental disposition at the time, there is still that little smile and personal contact that let's me know she knows that I understand her plight and how hard she is working to overcome it. It makes us both feel good.

Sometimes we don't appreciate the many many ways our spiritual beings reach out in this all to profane world. But when it happens there's magic and just a glimpse of what it must be like where the GOAT presides.
 
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