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According to our obligations if such a relationship is within honorable bounds then there is no issue. A mason who exploits her would be committing a masonic offense. It would be a matter of intent.
It would be no different than if a young mason dated the daughter of an older brother mason who took no issue with the coupling. Again I think the crux would be the intent to exploit (i.e. a mason committing adultery with a brother mason's wife).
There's an important word in my obligation that describes whether an action is appropriate or not. A different word is used jurisdiction to jurisdiction but the word used always means that. "Dating" suggests voluntary on both sides and thus appropriate.
No violation of our Master Mason obligation, as long as both parties are currently unattached. They're human beings, as well as consenting adults, so I say whatever works for them. As for those who may be a bit upset that their dead brother Mason's widow is seeing another brother Mason, that is something for those brothers to deal with, and hopefully they will.