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That's how I've seen it done in NM and CA, as well. In fact, one was read this month, requested by our JW, who was sitting in the South at the time. It was a sad moment, actually.
If you can't learn the ritual, then you won't be performing the ritual. In some jurisdictions you aren't allowed to be chosen for a chair unless you prove yourself.
Difficult for someone else to say, plus I'm not sure what bodies exist in the Netherlands. I'm fairly certain you have access to the Royal Arch and would highly recommend it. It truly brings the degrees full-circle.
Several decades ago you would have called a petitioners references, gone to his home, spoken to his friends and co-workers. That's police investigation level snooping.
I have done a simple search on a single website and discovered patterns of dangerous recklessness, spousal abuse, and criminal...
It may not be your choice... NM requires a background check and the petitioner knowingly pays the fees. I've personally discovered reasons to object (as part of an Investigation Committee) to a petitioner, just from looking at local court records.
You must first petition a Craft (or "blue") Lodge to become a Freemason. After that you may petition Scottish Rite, or a host of other organisations. Go to some of the various lodges, meet the members, get a feel for their "flavour," then you can make an informed decision.