The thing to remember is in 2007 the two Grand Lodges came together and gave each other recognition. Click
HERE for a copy of this Compact and
Click HERE for previous discussion
As you can see this has been a pretty hot topic. Through a little knowledge and education we can do our part in education on this subject with less knowledgeable Brethren. I personally have heard all kinds of rumors and "this is how it is" stories but the facts are PHGLoTX, F&AM and GLoTX, AF&AM DO recognize each other as regular that share the same jurisdiction but do not allow visitation and dual or plural membership with each other. As previously stated, a request for FULL visitation, to include visitation, has been made to the Grand Lodge of Texas, AF&AM and should be voted on this year during our annual communications. It should be reported on by the Fraternal Relations Committee.
There has been steps made in the right direction but with plenty of road blocks in the way.