Sadly, the author may have hit the proverbial nail right smack center on the head...to a point. The article was a great read and started me to think of my own life and decisions. I am 30 years old now. When I was younger, my family took me to a strictly Catic church which jammed the idea of an angry and vengeful God down my throat to the point where I was almost afraid to ever do or say or think "anything." This was drove me away from church. Why dedicate my time to be told two thousand reasons why God is angry at me, when all I was doing was what I thought was going to keep him happy? Of course, since then, I've grown...spiritually as well as physically. The church I now attend is much like the ones described in the article...the middle age pastor dressing and carrying himself as a "cool or hip" dude in his 20's, the rock band instead of the traditional choir, the padded stadium seating instead of the hard wooden pews, etc...
This is where I disagree with the author of the article. These aspects are part of what brought me back to church. My church is a non-denominational Christianity based congregation, that like our Fraternity, asks only that you believe in a Creator but does not necessarily force specifics of what that belief should be. The sermons are worded in a way that persons of just about any religious beliefs will walk out understanding the same messages.
I guess, to me, the idea of the church changing with times was appealing, as it was a change from what had driven me away when I was younger. It feels less like a job to go to church. I now thoroughly enjoy attending service. The message of God's glory comes across equally strong through "cool dude" Pastor Kyle as it would through "Mr Old School" church pastor who screams angry messages to those who will listen. To me, this modernizing of the church halls themselves, as well as the music and messages therein, at least in New Jersey, seems to be bringing a lot of people back. The message of the undying love of God instead of God's anger seems to appeal much more to a generation in thier teens and early 20's. We are always welcoming newcomers. In the four years I have atteneded the Connect Church, I have seen attendance increase by over triple, and the majority of this has been through word of mouth. For example, I made mention to a friend that my church had a rock band....my friend and his entire family are now regulars who can be found in the front row every week.
I understand where the author was coming from, and respect his views. I just disagree with that one aspect of his article and hope my point of view might inspire some more thoughtful conversation on this topic.
Sorry for the long post.
Brother EA Brian McFadden
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