Dear Sigma,
I did not read all the communications above, but I can tell you that I am a Lebanese Master Mason; my Lodge is located in Lebanon, working under the Jurisdiction of the Grand Lodge of New York.
You made the first big step when you decided not to join an irregular Lodge.
Not all Lebanese Brethren have Masonic signs on their cars, and not all of them wear their rings. It is something that you will decide, and we respect your decision, especially knowing that in Lebanon we are kind of living in high religious areas (example, I have monks, priests and nuns in my family, not all of them are aware of my position with the Freemasons, BUT I NEVER REMOVE MY RING).
Anyway, please feel free to send me a Private Message, and will come back to you with any assistance I can provide.
All the best!
Regards,