I am in agreement, that lodges should "stand on their own". I would like for my lodge dues to INCREASE, so that we would have enough in our treasury, to pay our expenses, and have a "rainy day fund" to cover unexpected costs (new water heater, new carpet,etc. ).
On the other hand, I have no problem at all, with "fund-raisers" ,fish-fries, pancake breakfasts, etc. They are enjoyable for the lodge, and it gets us out into the "public eye". We generate good will in the community, and even pick up some petitions. For many people, a fund-raiser is the only time they will ever be in a Masonic lodge, and it will be the only contact they ever have with Masonry. The point I am trying to make, is that there are non-cash benefits to fund-raisers.
Non-profit organizations, have traditionally held events to obtain donations from the community, so that the non-profit can continue to operate, and provide services back to the community. Definetly a win-win situation for all concerned.
I know of a lodge in KY, which needed a new air-conditioning system. The lodge decided to dedicate a memorial plaque in their entrance hall. Anyone who donated $50-$100 (or more) will have their name engraved on a brass plate on the plaque. The lodge received enough donations (almost all from members of the lodge, and surrounding area lodges), to purchase the new air-conditioning.