Do you need someone to walk you through the
http://nwcgrandchapter.org/ web page? Let's say you pick San Antonio #1. You click that chapter and see they meet Rice Road on the 1st Friday at 7:30. You can show up about 6:30 and when the brothers and sisters start arriving introduce yourself and ask for a petition. That's the process I used when I have relocated: Look up what jurisdiction is recognized. Look up what lodge is local. Show up in person. Decide if you want to ask for a petition.
Or do you need someone to walk you through introductions once you have selected the PHA Chapter nearest you? Showing up out of the blue in person can be intimidating. As you are a member of an unrecognized chapter and you want to be "healed" into a recognized one hesitation is all the more understandable. If you post which chapter you're near a PHA brother can try to arrange introductions so you don't show up out of the blue.
If you chose one of the San Antonio ones I'll be at PHA degree in San Antonio on Saturday so I can ask which of the brothers there are chapter members to start the introduction process if you'd like. You don't list a location so I don't know if you are near San Antonio.