All of these are excellent suggestions. I was in your shoes 10 years ago. Tonight I'll be giving my lodge's first lecture in at least 10 years. Change takes time. Sometimes it takes a few new faces with new perspective to get the ball rolling. My lecture tonight is actually about this exact thing, but it seems like you are on the right path.
Before you get too antsy and jump ship, I think you need to buckle down and get through those degrees. Your zeal is commendable, but don't forget why Entered Apprentices wear their aprons the way they do.
All that said, I'd like to echo a few things, and point out a few more. First, every lodge has it's own personality. Some lodges are dark this time of year and flourish in the summer. At my lodge, it's the opposite. December was our biggest turnout without a crisis to be discussed. In June, we had to make all kinds of last minute phone calls to get enough brethren to open this year's Lodge of Sorrow.
I would also give the Brethren a chance to get to know you better. And I would try to get to know THEM better as well. Some lodges have problems with people never turning in their EA proficiency and never being heard from again. Some lodges rarely have EA's and don't know how to interact with them due to fear of revealing something from the other degrees, using the wrong due guard, etc... And a degree is hard to put on in December. One of our EA's turned in proficiency in December, and we told him he's going to have to wait until February for us to have a proper degree team. Our brethren have all kinds of outside obligations this time of year. In fact, we're voting on changing our floor practice night to allow for more people on our degree team. Things change, and sometimes lodges have a hard time keeping up with that change. It's all part of the process.
Be patient. You're a Freemason for life. Being a Mason is a pursuit. Maybe it's not the lodge for you. But maybe you haven't given it a chance yet. And maybe you are their only hope for change.
Good luck, brother. Let us know how things are going as they progress.