My fear, I guess is how will I be looked at when I try to visit a lodge here in San Antonio, I don't remember any of the things you are supposed to know, I don't even have an apron. I just have myself and my dues card (which this years hasn't arrived yet, the lodge must be behind) and a strong, strong will to return and soak up everything I have missed.
The other thing is being in Hawaii, we were a little casual and could wear khaki pants and just a golf shirt to lodge meetings. I was told that you wear tuxedos here, is that true? I would have to buy a tuxedo before I could visit a lodge?
If anyone would help me it would be great. I have this burning in my heart to get back into the fraternity and experience the fun I had while going through the degree process.