I am not offended by your question but when I think about the question it doesn't make much sense to me for any service member to think or carry himself or herself in such a manner. I only speak from from the experience of being apart of an all volunteer force, I was born after the draft. I have served for over 18 years and I have never looked down or frowned on a civilian because they have chosen not to served. In America we all have a choice on what we want to do in life. I think it's safe to say that the majority of US Service members are aware that we have an all volunteer force so therefore I have no reason to look at any American differently because they chose another path in life. When you look at the US population (over 300 million) versus the Americans who have served and are currently serving (1776-2012 40 million). My numbers may not be accurate but they are close and by these numbers the U.S. Military is a small percentage of the U.S. Population, we are truly outnumbered. We fight for the freedom , rights and privileges of the Americans population, and part of that freedom is having a choice in picking a career path or whatever an American chooses to pursue in life. In my family only four of us have served in the military, I am not mad at those who chose not to serve. I have not seen, heard or met any service members from any branch who frowns on civilians for not serving. It does not happen often enough but when we are in uniform amongst the civilian population, it feels good when people of all ages, gender and ethnicity's say "Thank you for your service". Any Service member that would frown on a civilian for not serving obviously didn't pay attention when they enlisted into an all volunteer force. At the end of the day, we all have a choice and it's not meant for everyone to serve, someone has to work at the fast food restaurant, someone has to be a lawyer, doctor, and someone has to protect the American population. Whether protection of our freedoms come in the form of protection on the streets by a Law Enforcement Officer, or from a service member serving in a foreign land, it is a choice that each of the citizens of the United States make on their own. I appreciate all of the American population, even the ones who don't support the military, it is their freedom of choice and I respect that.