As I studied, and made it through each degree, I heard more about the higher degrees, but not enough to make me understand them. When finished, I had some tell me it was something I should do when I felt I was ready. Others told me they really did not think the York or Scottish Rite was for me. As I read and learn more, the latter may be the truer of the suggestions. I am not ruling it out yet, but there is so much more for me to do
"at home", and we can use any extra maney I have for projects in my Lodge first. As for people not having time, I was of that mind too. As I have noted here before, I had told others that I would petition when I felt I had time to dedicate to the work and Lodge. As I studied, I learned I had the time all along... I set aside an hour each evening after work to go to Brother Joe's house, and we would study. As we went along, the hour stretched to an hour and a half, then to 2 hours. It seemed we had only started and we had the 2 hours in. Since that time, I have learned I have plenty of time for the Lodge as well. When we need work done, all I do is tell everyone around me, where I will be, and what I will be doing, and the time is mine... Sometimes friends and family will stop by to see what we are doing. Many will help, but seem to be afriad to go any farther with us. Some have mentioned trouble with the word Worshipful, and I have shown the beginnings of the title. Maybe one will step up, but until then, I will find the time I want or need to do the things I now enjoy, and I am able to do this without taking needed time from family or work. Just do it! But, I stopped chewing tobacco by throwing a half pouch away, and have been away from it almost 3 years. I stopped alcohol in 1988, just waking up and deciding it was not healthy, and have not had a drink since then. I may be the fortunate one, but I think all it takes, is to make up your mind, and do it... Am I wrong?