Just some thoughts on my experience to far...
It's been almost a year since I reached out to a friend (Mason) and upon his advise, drove to the White Lodge building in my town. I walked into the building somewhat nervous; still not sure what to expect. Once inside, I observed several guys talking here and there, some appearing to be readying the tables for a meal. It didn't take long until I was noticed awkwardly standing there I'm sure. Three guys looked up seeing me, then all walked over with a smile. I was treated like someone who had been away and now found my way back. Handshakes, words of greetings and introductions; they knew who I was and were hoping I would come. I already knew a great deal about Freemasonry through friends, and as I've previously stated 20 years worth of reading. What I didn't necessarily expect was the sense of belonging I felt. The feelings of wanting to be a part of this group, not abstractly based on books, but based on friendship and community.
After that day, I was hooked. Events could not come fast enough for me. I did everything in my power to experience / learn everything I could. From washing dishes in the kitchen every other Monday, attending any educational pieces that I was allowed to, writing research papers, volunteering at events and fundraisers, to now taking part in an EA degree. I always have consumed books like oxygen, and Masonry would be no different. I found troves of digital books through archive, purchased numerous books at second hand stores, and became very acquainted with Amazon and Ebay.
I also joined several websites and forums where I could interact with Brothers from all over the world. I learned about other bodies of Masonry I didn't know existed. I found friends from all over and a new sense of belonging. I also learned that what I read, and what I learned in Lodge did not necessarily carry the same weight with all Mason's. While this confused me, I decided that it might be a way for myself and others to explore subjects through debate. Debate to me is fun and productive. You pick a topic whether you believe it or not and debate its merits. Well, I learned some people do not like debates (my fault) and sometimes, take discussions personally.
I have moved through my EA, and now am in my FC. If all goes well, I'll be a MM before summer starts. I have made it known that I wish to join the line, and wish to focus most of my attention in Blue Lodge for the foreseeable future. I feel blessed to be apart of Masonry, and truly glad I drove up to that white building that day. It's kind of strange... finding something you were missing and didn't realize it till you found it.