Wise counsel, brother.
A good point. I hate to admit it, but I'm aware of some brothers of advanced years in some lodges who, despite GL directives, are in no hurry for integration. There are no black brothers in their lodges, and they will do their part to keep it that way because those are the "values" they grew-up with. I don't understand how they can speak of brotherly love and meeting on the level with those attitudes, but that's a subject for another thread.
As the saying goes, Rome wasn't built in a day. Patience and fortitude, with a steady hand, will eventually yield the changes most of us (imho) are ready for.