I had been dating a lady for three weeks when I invited her to the monthly lodge dinner. It was the annual Ladies Night for wives and widows. My blood relatives were 3 time zones away and I wanted her to know my family so I took her to lodge. As soon as we arrived they put us both to work and she loved being treated as family. More than one Brother took me aside and each conversation went like "You know this dinner is for wives, right?" "Yeah, I know". "That soon? Are you sure?". "Yeah, I'm sure". I waited until well after our 10th anniversary before I told my wife the meaning of this event from our first month of dating.
That choked me up brother...
My proudest moment... man.. that's almost an impossible question.
Seeing the first guy I propose become a MM, but even more, watching him at lodge years after smiling talking to some other brother and him not really having the time to spend with me. Makes me smile. I was at his place today. He has another brother at his place the day before...
My first installation, watching a room full of guys and realizing they were there for me. Less proud, more honoured I guess. One level of happiness was especially for my proposer who I knew had invested a lot of time in me. RIP Brother....
My third installation - watching a room of about 120 people including family have the best time..... but listening to the visitors response given by my partner. She knows the lodge well and it was an inspired choice, she spoke so well.... hit the nail right on the head about Freemasonry as only fresh eyes can.... That choice was a master stroke
MWGM installed me and mentioned it widely and positively..Watching about 20 guys from my mother lodge turn up as visitors made my eyes soggy. Them walking in on mass, PMs and MMs together moved me in a way I will never forget..
Watching several guys I've mentored become top quality Masters, esp my latest successor, I just set him up so well and gave him every chance for success which positioned a talented guy to really excel for the benefit of the lodge...
Watching a masonic temple's bank balance grow through my efforts from insolvency to financial security..
Yeah yeah... pride is a sin LOL. .. but I guess the above is really just as much about satisfaction as pride.... I guess if there is one thing I am "proud" of it's producing over 100 editions of our lodge newsletter, at times it's editorials has been on the cutting edge of contentious issues, the best ones
never get published on the web
Yeah, and I am proud of my chest full of medals... even though they get dusty and I rarely wear them,.... having them is enough and I actually did stop wearing them because I realised it was purely out of pride.. they tend only to come out at installations now days... in acknowledgement of those what gave em to me and the collective success they represent..