As an added thought, I quickly find how much respect my family and peers give me when Masonry is questioned. When they tell me something anti-mason they heard, and I then discredit it, I look for their reaction. If they trust my point of view, then I know I have their respect and the conversation can continue. If they won't believe what I say, then there is no point talking with them further about it. Why argue with the profane?
Note, this really only applies to those you have close relationships with.
Note, this really only applies to those you have close relationships with.