Young Brother, I would call on you to handle this situation by following the wise counsel of my District Brother Byron Upton, and also to look within YOURSELF while enduring this ordeal. The issue may not lie with YOU, however, since you are being adversely affected, I can offer some First Degree advice off line. As one Brother stated above, there may perhaps be some issue of which you are unaware, and patience along with diplomacy is always the order of the day. I don't have the feeling that they would have given you the vote if they did not want you to become Brothers. And, in regard to your teaching/learning of information, some Lodges differ on how the information is taught.
Ultimately, it is YOUR responsibility to ingest what is issued to you, and commit it to memory. Books and websites that you may have bought and read don't determine how you are taught---YOUR LODGE DOES. This is a marathon, not a sprint, Brother........ If your sponsor is an active brother in this Lodge, then I would most definitely seek his advice/guidance on the matter. Your sponsor is the one who should be supporting you through this journey. I want to reserve judgment on the Brothers in the Lodge until you have gathered all of the facts, but please keep one thing in mind-----THE CRAFT POSSESSES MANY BEAUTIFUL TRUTHS, LESSONS, AND SYMBOLIC APPLICATIONS-----HOWEVER, MEN ARE IMPERFECT, SO WE MUST PLACE OUR TRUST IN THE GRAND ARCHITECT OF THE UNIVERSE.
Please reach out to your DDGM, if more than one attempt to your WM is unsuccessful. This is not your end of the road. We will all hold out hope that there is a plausible and HARMONIOUS solution to this issue. If either I or Bro Upton can be of assistance to you, please contact either one of us via Private Message. From THIS point until you receive more information, I would also refrain from putting ANY FURTHER INFORMATION regarding this issue on this Forum, until you have given your WM and DDGM the respect of an opportunity to handle your issue. I understand you were seeking guidance, but there was a word that you should have been taught which alludes to HOW YOU ARE TO HANDLE COMMUNICATION WITH OTHERS OUTSIDE OF YOUR LODGE at this point in your journey.
And, putting your Lodge business on a public Forum wasn't the most prudent manner or way to handle a sensitive issue such as this----you are trying to become a BROTHER OF THIS LODGE. I am not chastising you; I just want to impress upon you the importance of what you are getting yourself into----this is a BROTHERHOOD, however flawed some of its members may be, there are still protocols and courtesies which should be extended BOTH WAYS. YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO QUESTION, BUT YOU MUST BE CAREFUL AS TO HOW AND TO WHOM YOU DIRECT THAT INQUISITION.
Please advise us on any progress or result as you receive word......................CONTINUE TO SEEK LIGHT, and please take my advice and any criticism levelled here as CONSTRUCTIVE......I WISH YOU NOTHING BUT THE BEST IN YOUR ENDEAVOR TO BECOME MY BROTHER...............SO MOTE IT BE
BRO. VINCENT C. JONES, SR., BAYOU CITY LODGE #228, PHA
PRINCE HALL AFFILIATION, FREE AND ACCEPTED MASONS, DISTRICT 15-A, HOUSTON, TEXAS
MOST WORSHIPFUL PRINCE HALL GRAND LODGE OF TEXAS